Rose – Dear Future Husband Series!

Dear Future Husband

Happy New Week Guys!

I hope you’ve enjoyed the series so far,  I hope as it’s getting closer to Valentines day you know and understand better that love is not only celebrated on this one day but should be celebrated everyday of our lives.

If you’ve missed previous post make sure to catch up on them right below;

Tolu Martin



Here is another Letter from DatOneLady herself.



I don’t know who you are, where you are,but I pray for you every night and ask God to point you in my direction.

      – Verse Inspire

Dear Future Husband,

I know it sounds surreal to call you this, I hope this letter meets you well. I hope when you read this, it’s either we already know each other and don’t know we would end up at the altar or you just found out about me.

What exactly is even written in a letter like this whew! This is actually harder than I anticipated.I am a scaredy cat when it comes to the matters of the heart, I ask too many question that I am sure it would almost scare you from popping the question even when you are totally ready and you know I am.

If you ever have doubts about me saying yes or no, make sure you’ve spoken to God about us and ensure my parents and siblings are aware of your decisions and get their blessings before you go on one knee.

I have not been very lucky when it comes to “RELATIONSHIPS” hence why the idea of it all scares me these days. I am working on myself when it comes to believing or trusting individuals so don’t be surprised when you walk up to me and say “Hey, you look so beautiful today” and I reply “yeah right! that’s what y’all say”.

This might sound awkward but don’t try to understand me, Get to know ME. There is no book for any woman so please don’t pull social media stunts on me or use the tricks you think have worked for others because I am DatOneLady that’s different.

Find God, Find yourself and then come and find me.

                                                – Spiritual Inspiration

I crave a unique relationship (and I don’t mean boyfriend and girlfriend of 2017). I mean  a relationship that is God-centered, God-directed and Mission driven. I talk a lot so communication is not a problem for us, as long as you are cool with it we are all set. I plan a lot because my mom taught me to always “Make hay while the sun shines” and I hope you do too.

I am a huge lover of family, so you would find me talking about family a lot. I also look forward to meeting your family, and I hope they would love me as mine would love you.

I am old school when it comes to the matters of the heart, I love flowers especially ROSES and those who know me understand why and I am sure you would in due time. I adore romantic dinners with my ever adorable smelling Yankee candles or bath and body works scented candles, I also collect scented candles and love them as gifts.I love personalised cards and i have a collection that i would show you both from friend and ex’s (i should get rid of the ones from exes but i keep them not for sentimental reasons but for the love of cards).

Sometimes I can get too carried away by my career goals and ambitions and planning which is a good characteristic that I think would help our family, but please when you see me going too far remind me to leave work at work and be at home when i am home.

I am well brought up, so my wifely and motherly duties won’t be a problem as long as you are sitting right next to me when you are available. Hopefully, you would love to listen to all my cheesy Steve Jablonsky scores and Ed-sheeran music. But hey, I can be flexible with music as long as they are very clean and healthy for my soul (i am sure you can tell that i love music).

Thank you in advance for loving me because of my imperfections, not despite of my imperfections.

        – Unknown

I love LOVE  and used to be a hopeless romantic, but I lost hope in love due to some unfortunate events which I am healing properly from. Ever since I hold back a lot, check my steps over and over again so as not to make the same mistakes I have made in the past.I hope you would be patient with me and ease me back into the world of love and help me completely believe in love again.

This might sound stupid but babe I don’t want the love of these days, I want the good old love of the 80’s that knew no deceit, social media or wedding blogs. I want the love of just you and me and eventually our kids.

Till then stay prayerful, as i conjure with the host of heavens.



Comment down below, what you would like your future partner to know about you, and if you already have one comment something you want them to know you appreciate about them.


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